End-of-Life Planning: Prioritizing Quality of Life in Terminal Illness
When a loved one is living with a terminal or chronic debilitating condition such as Alzheimer’s, dementia, multiple sclerosis (MS), Parkinson’s disease, or others, making decisions about their care as the disease progresses can be both emotionally taxing and complex. Beyond a Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) order, families might consider additional directives to ensure that their loved one’s remaining time is spent in comfort, dignity, and accordance with their wishes.
This is a deeply personal journey that tests the limits of our emotional resilience, challenging us to balance our love and compassion with our own fear of loss. It compels us to confront our reluctance to let go of a loved one and to weigh it against what might be the most compassionate and humane choice. In these situations, the most loving act may be to prioritize the person’s comfort and dignity over the instinct to prolong life, especially when further medical interventions might only extend their suffering.
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